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Why are my feelings invalid?

Why are my feelings invalid?

JxSparrow7

You're feelings are invalid because you act pathetic like this. (seriously people, just look at his profile. He's also u/ooooooooootefgyte . It looks like he had to make a new account because of all the negative karma. This is all he whines about. He makes me think "incel" is a real valid insult)


eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeoso

So I deserve to be alone because I always have been?


JxSparrow7

As long as you act like this, absolutely.


eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeoso

Hear that? You deserve everything that happens to you because it’s been that way all your life. Homeless as a child? Fucking deserves it


JxSparrow7

If you don't put in the effort to change. Yeah, your fucking fault. You're a whiner. No one likes to listen to whiners. You put sex on pedestals and cry nonstop about it. You don't take anyone's advice. Just whine.


eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeoso

I’ve done everything


JxSparrow7

You're a liar. You've done nothing but complain and whine. Start there. Fucking stop. Go on reddit and talk about hobbies.


eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeoso

Autistic and wasn’t diagnosed until 16, I had 0 friend until I was 20, like I literally had never made a friend until then. As a child on top of autism I never got the chance to develop social skills at a time where it’s crucial you develop them then and there. It creates a cycle. No one wants to be with the weird guy, so he gets less chances to learn, making them weirder until they’re too far gone. I’ve been in therapy close to a decade trying to undo this but it can’t be undone fully. I’ve been told by multiple therapist I will a always be different to an extent, and that’s not attractive, the “just not always getting it.” Isn’t something women want to deal with. I will never be consistently normal no matter how hard I try I’m just too far gone. I’m physical incapable of being consistently charismatic. I’ve made friends and I’m content with my social life in that regard. But I’m simply too unattractive on top of that to ever have someone find me attractive. ugly and 5’6 I’m hygienic, work out, put myself out there, tried all I can socially, but it’s all for nothing. Guess it’s still my fault though right?


dead_inside_ha

I swear to god, you always send the same fucking story all the time.


SoyIncelDemonbux

It's called copypasta


eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeoso

Because it’s valid


JxSparrow7

Copy and paste the same whine. Die alone. That's your fate, your choice.


InxKat13

Yes. Yes you do.


eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeoso

Why do deserve to be alone


InxKat13

Because you're an awful person and no one deserves to have to put up with you.


eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeoso

Elaborate


InxKat13

Your comment history speaks for itself, incel.


eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeoso

Ah you’re trolling ok


InxKat13

That's rich coming from a troll lol. It's been explained to you over and over why you are in the wrong. Grow up and accept it, or wallow alone in self pity for the rest of your life. No one cares.


DareloDural

Do we now have the holy trinity of daily posts? The dude who sleeps with his aunt, "I am in my last year. I don't wanna quit but I have to" and finally the "I am a 24-year old kissless virgin".


SoyIncelDemonbux

It's bot spam.


cmasontaylor

It isn't simple, but it is the case that your own perspective is continually harming you. Your belief that you need something from someone else, another person whose feelings and desires you cannot control, in order to be happy, is wrecking you. I've been there. It sucks. The only escape I know of, the one that worked for me, was seeking joy through other means. Find the things you love doing; skills you love perfecting, games you love playing, causes you love supporting. Particularly, find ones that put you in contact with other people who share those things if possible. It's one thing to have a few friends you like. It's another entirely to have communities that regularly expose you to the joy of encountering new people with whom you have things in common. If you try something and don't like it, stop, and try something else It isn't simple. It's a process that takes a LOT of time and effort. But it's the only thing I know that can help. Find things you love doing, and do them. Joy begets joy. A relationship can't bring you happiness all on its own. If you got into one tomorrow, if you don't change your perspective, you'd end up as miserable in it as you are single. You have to address the root.


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InxKat13

Seriously. If this loser spent half as much time at the gym as he does whining on reddit he'd look like The Rock by now.