T O P

I get no joy out of life being a 24m virgin

I get no joy out of life being a 24m virgin

alawiGP

Just pay for it if it’s bothering you, really.


bradley22

Why does sex matter to so many people? As others have said; if you want it that bad, pay for a prostitute.


TruthMedicine

A woman is not a sex sponge for men who can't appeal to anyone else under any regular circumstance. Coerced consent to sex is not consent.


bradley22

edit: added a comma and fixed a word. A bad prostitute is one that basses her thoughts around how a man looks instead of his personality. Trust me; I'm not the prettiest of guys and I've managed to have sex with women, prositutes included.


TruthMedicine

>A bad prostitute is one that basses her thoughts What do her thoughts have to do with anything? Wow this is very deranged. Her consent is "you give money, you have her body." Ofc you would argue that a woman should not have any enjoyment of a non ugly man. That's why you like prostitution. Because that is where you can force women to fuck you for money. Imagine training a little girl to think this way about her future, you sicko. Nobody; boy or girl, should ever grow up to be a prostitute. The very fact you say a "good prostitute" is sickening to me. The prostitutes you had sex with had sex with you because you gave them money. That's it.


bradley22

I mean if a prositute thinks, nah I won't have sex with that one he's ugly; she won't get as much money as someone who doesn't care or pretends not to but the women I've been with have been genuin as far as I can tell. I'm confused... The woman should enjoy sex or there's no point in doing it unless you need to to live and then I can understand you not enjoying it but doing it for the money; I don't like it but that's life sadly. A good prositute, (a man or woman who wants to make the most money) should not focus on looks and try to get along with the client if they can, they can say no to sex, of course, where as a bad one would go "ewww no, he's ugly" and not reply to a client. I don't understand why this is hard to understand? It's like, to be a good IT person you must know a lot about computers, a good teacher must know a lot about their subject and a good prositute shouldn't let looks get in the way. I'm not saying they can't have preferences but there might be issues when it comes to money if that's the case.


TruthMedicine

Wow genius you described exactly what I just told you, you're fucking amazing. Now. Tell me more about how you think: >The woman should enjoy sex But >prostitutes need to fuck ugly dudes The two are opposed to eachother. sex "work" is not sex "enjoyment" dude. In the same way its toxic husband thinks he should be given sex because he did the dishes, and that if she doesn't for whatever reason she's a "bad wife" This is not centering women's pleasure, but treating women like it's their "job" to give sex.


bradley22

wow... It's almost like everyone's different. Are there some people who get into this job because of shit like sex traficking and things like that, of course! But there are also women who do enjoy this type of work. There's no point continuing this as I know I am write and you're just going to keep trying to put me down for what, internet points, something to do? Whatever it is; I won't be responding anymore.


TruthMedicine

I'm sure the prostitutes you see make sure to tell you how much they enjoy it while they're getting you off.


bradley22

Oh and as for growing up to be a prositute that's entirely up to the person, their country and the laws within it. There are prositutes who enjoy their job you no.


MaxCrusher179

You get shamed for being a virgin. A man in r/Trueunpopularopinion said that you're worthless if you're over 18 and a virgin.


bradley22

So because one person said it it must be true? I'm 28 and while I've had sex and came, that was only this year and TBH, it wasn't all that.


MaxCrusher179

Well yes I do somewhat believe them. Given all the jokes about virgins it seems to me as if he represents the unspoken opinion of many many people.


bradley22

Well those people are idiots.


MaxCrusher179

They still make the social rules unfortunately.


bradley22

And you get to decide whether those "rules" are worth giving a shit about or not.


MaxCrusher179

Not if you want to have friends.


bradley22

People like that don't sound like good friends to me.


Backwoods-Babe

then have sex


eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeoso

Do you not think Ive tried?


JorisuCuddleaddict

Sex is not everything,a relationship is not everything. You can't get any of thise without being at least a bit positive about yourself


tossacointoyouralt

Do or do not, there is no try.


two-stars

*Coming I am. Strong is the Force with this one*


patlight1

Just get a hooker. You pay, they lay.


UglyDuffelBag

Give it a rest already NO ONE HERE CARES.


HSeyes23

Don't you think it's kind of pathetic? Putting all of your happiness on the hands of a freaking girl?


MaxCrusher179

We are humans. Our ONLY REAL PURPOSE in our lives is reproduction.


HSeyes23

Weird considering there are so many humans (including me) who are physically incapable of reproducing, some of them are even born that way. If you want to assign all of your purpose into reproduction that's fine, but saying that this is the "only real purpose" for everyone is fallacious. Actually, it's easier to argue that our "real purpose" is extinction, since this is what will happen to any kind of life form no matter what. Reproduction is completely pointless in the long term. But anyway, you can have whatever purpose you want.


MaxCrusher179

Is it though? We are not built for any other purpose.


HSeyes23

This idea of reproduction being our life purpose is just social pressure from the majority. Reproductions is just an option many people adhere to and many people completely avoid. Check out r/regretfulparents for example, lots of parents are completely miserable for their decision and would rather never fulfill this supposedly "life purpose". You can have whatever goal is important to you and being miserable shouldn't be one of them.


Zkyaiee

Why do gay animals and people naturally exist within biology, then?


MaxCrusher179

Errors


Zkyaiee

Do you really think biology is that simple?


MaxCrusher179

No, but homosexuality has no purpose and does not improve species survival in any way so it must be a mistake.


Zkyaiee

That’s not true. There’s theories as to why having gay people in social species is beneficial. Such as the “gay uncle” theory. It is very possible that having gay people is beneficial in communities.


MaxCrusher179

Prove it.


bradley22

Who told you that? I'm not going to have kids and I'm here enjoying life. My purpose is to have as much fun as I can. If you want to find a girl to have sex with you need to change your outlook, especially if you want to keep her in your life, I don't think she'd like to have her purpose boild down to just a breeding machine.


Aeronauti

Why are you guys being such dicks to OP? Anyway, this may be generic advice, but try looking for new hobbies and joining the communities for them and you might meet and make new friends! Good luck out there OP!


UglyDuffelBag

Because he has posted this 20 times


Aeronauti

Oh damn I didn’t know