This behavior and sheer wastage of food
By - sajidhaque10
They probably beat him up when opening presents…
He was the pinata.
He coughs up candy when you hit him hard enough
With mountain dew
And Hawaiian Punch if you hit him hard enough
yeah i don't understand why anyone is okay with this sort of abuse.
talk about a way to scar a kid.
Later in life when this child begins to act out in seriously antisocial ways this group of people will be wondering what could possibly make him be like that.
Violent video games no doubt. Couldn’t be the fact that even joyous occasions were denied him by his family’s collective inability to behave decently.
It’s the school’s fault clearly. /s
Ya man I absolutely do not have a functioning relationship with my parents because of bullshit like this…it’s funny every once in awhile with a hug and sorry we love you but even past 18 shit gets fucking old…you realize they’re not the people you can trust, so you end up angry as fuck like me…0/10 would not do life
They just throw the presents in his face too "ooo look a new baseball bat!"
That moment after they all pummel him and he goes back to trying to cut the cake with his head down.. that she hit the feels.
Then they tore the cake apart and threw it in his face
That was what killed me, he doesn't even get to eat the damned cake. Little dude was done wrong.
Is it wrong to have the strong urge to punch every person in that room except for the kid
Nope it is not, I'm coming with you
All aboard the beating up douchebags train.
What do we call ourselves? Douchebag Beaters?
Birthday savers. As long as you take the kid out for a proper birthday.
I’m in for the Birthday Savers. We show up with everything for a party, then when his family’s eyes light up we beat the stuffing out of them, drag them outside and throw little dude a fun, but chill, party!
With a HUGE cake and little man gets to cut it on the shoulders of his favorite super heroes.
Also let's use his family as piñatas
Shifts would have to be organised so that while part of the group is giving the kid a fun birthday, the other part is far enough away that the kid doesn't have to see his family being fed their own teeth.
Douchedust crusaders, we will turn them to dust
When do we start :D
I'll be right there with you with an asp baton.
Fuck dose guys! Hope that little boy have some better adults to take care of him
Nah! I’ll even bring the fucking guillotine🤯🤯🤬🤬
Yes it is weird don't forget about birthday punches don't want to exclude the kid
Punch is the least of what I'd do.
Especially the kid.... wait...
I’m coming with you too. How can a parent let their child be treated like this? This is straight up abuse.
I'm coming with you
I donno why but this comment makes me miss good people who are gone
I'll go with you.
forget punching, im getting ready to break out my sword and start a fucking crusade
I’m so angry, I could punch them all twice
I would hug that kid so hard, he would feel so loved
Wtf!? Why?! Poor kid
But can we just take a moment to think about cleaning up that mess? Fuck
They probably made the kids clean it.
Well it was *his birthday!*
That's unnecessary as fuck. I hate everyone in this video
The kid too?
“People are too sensitive these days!”
- People that do shit like this.
"At LeAsT yOu GoT a CaKe FoR yOuR bIrThDaY"
“I didn’t even get to eat it!”
“Kids these days are so ungrateful!”
*Puts on two layers of warm clothes and a beanie to step outdoors in September*
'What wrong with you? This shit is hilarious." *Years later* "Where is that shit? Why couldn't he visit me at the retirement home at least just once. I was a great father, giving him character."
Not even a facepalm just a r/iamatotalpieceofshit
beat me to it
I’d also accept r/trashy
What a traumatic experience for that kid... Great family, or something...
I know he’s really little and it looked like he was trying to get the raw egg out of his eyes and they just kept pelting him with chunks of cake. Wtf i feel so bad for him poor kid
Hurts my heart. He looked so modest and happy the first few seconds.
I know he was so happy and excited to be the birthday boy and then they humiliate him while filming it. It just seems so mean spirited he’s just a little boy
And then imagine them showing him the video and laughing at the fun they had together on his birthday for the next few weeks.
Really solidifies the message of “your feelings don’t matter.”
The poor kid is literally shaking his head no. He’s not enjoying this.
Must hate his birthday.
Saddest thing was how he kept trying to cut his cake.
Shoulda turned the knife on the rest
That little boy didn't look amused. I hope they had an extra cake and an apology ready for him!
Yea, normally after getting whipped, momma comes out with a towel, baby talk and the real cake. Happens all the time over here
I’m so shocked at how people are like “meh. It’s not that big of a deal”
But imagine trying to cut your cake as a kid and then THIS happens? You were so stoked to have a cake and then it gets absolutely destroyed and you get attacked.
Doesn’t matter if a new cake is brought out, the emotional and physical damage is already done.
It’s such a shitty thing to do…
Well then I guess that makes child abuse ok..........
What kind of sick place is "over here"?
I’m assuming Mexico?
Apology doesn't cut it, it's child abuse. They need to be put away.
What a bunch of dicks.
I hate this. The whole time I'm expecting the kid to raise their head up and start bawling, but they never do. A five-year-old shouldn't be that stoic.
Yeahh it makes me wonder about the day to day abuse he puts up with
This was done to me as a child. Not to this extent but close. It's humiliating and unacceptable. I feel for the kid.
If I may, what sort of warped reasoning does an adult try to give for acting this way?
Sorry that happened to you friend.
Probably young parents who are just using the kids birthday as another reason to have friends over and get wasted, they probably all went outside and played drunk volleyball after this, leaving the kid inside, probably didn’t even invite the kids friends over. Two “parents” killed a kid and buried him in a cornfield out here in NW Chicagoland two years ago because the kid was “inconvenient” to them. It was a rather nice neighborhood two blocks from where I lived. Evil can exist anywhere anytime and you would never know
Lots of people view their children as a thing they get for entertainment. That’s why they complain so much when the child develops its own personality, instead of always doing what they want.
When tf this became a trend? Traumatized kid. Never gonna forget his 5th bday. Poor thing gonna request no more bday parties
Nothing about this is good. Everything about this is bad.
Why do people splat the meal in their kids face? This is so cruel and traumatic.
What the hell is this, this is f*cked up
That’s just straight up child abuse. What the fuck…….
In Mexico they celebrate the mordida, a tradition when the first birthday boy or girl's face gets shoved in cake by a loving parent. But this is different, this is just pure barbaric.
Yes, shoving someone's face in the cake is very different from pelting the birthday person with eggs then proceed to grab parts of the cake and then proceed to fucking throw it at them like a baseball player. AND DID THEY POUR SOUP ON THEM?!?!?!
Yes, it is also tradition to pour hot soup on them. The ones that survive get to turn 5
I love the last sentence. 🤣🤣🤣
How is mordida NOT barbaric???
It isn't that bad, in my country your friends will literally line up, make a human corridor and make you run between them while they hit you with slaps. After this we usually get hugged, cheered and get some gifts
usually? wow that's rough.
Because not everyone is a sissy and can have fun. This is different but don’t go hating on other cultures traditions
I don't give a shit what your culture is, this is child abuse
What is fun about wasted cake?
Yes, let’s use culture to justify beating a kid up.
Some culture marry kids off but I suppose that’s ok because of culture?
What the point of the tradition exactly? An excuse for child abuse?
I am so disgusted by this… where are his parents? In what circumstances is this appropriate behavior?
I try to be culturally sensitive but if this is a cultural/traditional (coming of age) activity, people really need to assess the origins, meaning, and maybe come up with a less violent approach.
I can assure you this isn't a cultural thing. Most traditions try to not waste food (save for religious ceremonies, probably, but that's usually donated too). It's most probably another level of the bashing face in a cake thing, which is a product of trying to follow popular fads. The family must have thought it's a funny prank and they'd all laugh about it.
It's a cultural thing in Mexico or at least that's what I've been told
Yeah, I just learned the face-cake thing is a Mexican tradition, but it's usually reserved to first birthdays and this whole egg and other shit they're throwing at him isn't part of the tradition.
Oh yeah this example is over the top and really enters the gray zone between abuse and cultural expression
Obscene. How am I supposed to coexist with all the people in the world who behave this way?
This is difficult to watch and absolutely disgusting. Even if this a cultural thing it was obsessive, violent and traumatizing. Shit like this honestly makes me depressed. How people can behave like this is completely beyond me.
And the Birthday Killer was born.
Fuck those assholes. No kid will be happy with a birthday party like that
C'mon MAAAAN, that's just so bad..
If this was my son, I’d be fighting my entire family
This is sad
I don’t think wasting food is the problem here
This makes me sick. He’s a child and the others around him appear to be teenagers. Grow the fuck up.
This is not facepalm. It's barbaric. I'd really like to see it removed so it doesn't propagate.
I’m glad the majority of these comments agree that this is abuse. I was expecting much more degeneracy in the comment section. Keeping it up with these comments, might hopefully shame some parents who would otherwise have been tempted to try something similar. (Talking about all forms of “pranking” children who are too young to “get the joke.”)
Wow. Fuck these people
And someone filmed that and was probably very happy with themselves. Sickening.
That is child abuse!
That's just so obnoxious and sad
How to basic childhood story
Where is the fun in that?
What in the actual fuck?
This family disgusts me
5 to 6 adults bathing little kid in soft drinks and food.
This made me so sad
Ahhhhhh... reminds me of a birthday tradition in my home country that I absolutely hates. On birthdays the birthday kid would be pelted with eggs and flour. For what reason? Who knows. Shits and giggles probably.
Thankfully I scared my classmates enough that they never tried it with me and that 'tradition' disappeared when I got into high school and hopefully will never make a comeback.
Someone please drag this family through the streets to the DCF. This is excessive and cruel to a kid that young.
That’s absolutely disgusting
This is horrendous. He’s so little 😭
Omg.. doing this to someone older might be funny, but hes a very tiny boy, this is bordering on child abuse.
What the fuck.... That isn't fun, that is fucking torture....
poor kid only wanted to eat some cake....
Poor child. Im sure he is trumatized after it, and Im sure if the child had cried or screamed the adults would have just laugh or beat him
That is awful.
I feel sick to my stomach.
Part of me wants to say that I don't know the whole story and that this is most likely a tradition that everyone in this family has gone through.
The other part of me is telling that part to shut the fuck up because I would personally never do this to any kid.
Why would people do this in the first place??
What a totally disgusting act these guys really get my goat what total A holes.
I wanna puke.
What the hello was that??
They're adults bullying a kid. What's the point in that? To ruin his birthday?
If this is a cultural thing, can someone let me know which one so I can be sure to avoid it.
Anyone else wish they could call CPS and then throw the kid a real party while the parents rot in jail?!
I'm hearing this is a tradition in Mexico, yeah that doesn't mean it's condoneable. Every culture has some stupid traditions we should try to get rid of.
Oh cool, some casual child abuse. This really boiled my piss. I have a kid about this age and would batter anyone who tried this with him. Can’t get over this poor kid’s resignation. He’s been through shit like this before.
The kid after 7-8 years-
I know throwing eggs at someone in their birthday then using their cakes to make it fancier is a good kind of prank (only if they have permission to use the cake). However, I'm disgusted by this. Just seeing the poor kid struggling to remove the egg from his face and then having his cake thrown on him makes me feel quite bad. Although on another perspective, this might be scripted. Anyways, I really don't like the fact that they wasted a lot of eggs just for that stunt. You only need like a dozen eggs in order to do this, not an entire fucking bucket.
If the people who threw eggs on him were kids, fuck them. If they were adults, grow the fuck up. CodeXCursors out.
The next part was they smashed all his gifts with baseball bats.
The smashed him with bats while he tried to open gifts.
Is this a recent video? WTF.
There better be a backup cake or there will be consequences. Just sayin.
He is now a member of the most successful secret society in the world !! Congratulations 🥳
What the fuck is this shit?
He’s just a boy you fucking bastards. If I was there and wasn’t in on the ‘joke’ I’d be swinging for the fences.
He is just a child. Wtf
What the fuck? Why?
What is the point of this? Great fun for the victim?
I would never celebrate a birthday again.
Everyone except the kid deserves a hard slap here. M
What a bunch of assholes
this infuriates me so fucking much
I just wanna give that poor kid a hug, after watching this
This shouldn’t be under facepalm, it should be under asshole parents
Nothing about this seems right (or fun)
Now that is just child abuse
This has put me in a bad mood.
A pie to the face can be done in good fun; but several eggs, a bowl of indeterminate liquid, and the cake torn apart? No. That was awful.
Fuck this family in particular
This is hard to watch.
Poor little guy is not going to want a celebration in his honor if that’s the way family treats each other on their day.
This was his present , cruel and unusual punishment for being born.
This really upsets me. I hate everything about it. How old is that poor kid??
What the fuck?
Why would an adult do this to a child?
I would never want another party ever again. Shit like this is why when my birthday comes around, I want people to back the hell away from me
A sheer waste of food, plus being rude and abusive.
Ah childhood truama my dear friend
From what I can gather, this is a birthday tradition in Indonesian culture. Close friends and family of the guest of honor will play surprise pranks, including dousing them with water and throwing food such as flour and eggs on them (most common), throwing the birthday boy/girl into a pool or river, tying them to a tree, or making them wear silly outfits and go out into the town to complete tasks. Apparently being covered in flour is a great honor and even complete strangers will applaud and wish a happy birthday to someone covered in flour.
If I were the kid I’d be paused off
Pretty sure I've seen this posted somewhere and it was explained that this is culture for when someone reaches a certain year on their birthday. Forget which culture but that's my rough recollection of it.
I'm not one to question culture but I will admit it seems pretty fucked from an outside perspective.
Happy birthday kid, we fucking hate you! If these are friends and family, I'd fuckin run away.
HA usually I just had my face smashed in the cake, but this happended to my uncle one time LOL
Better than using stones I suppose
I couldn’t agree more with the wastage
Ppl are getting more stupid than before, wasting food, and the kid is not happy with what is happening.
Redditor’s when a kid enjoys playing fortnite
For those of you hating on them, idk about other cultures but this is an extremely common Mexican tradition (I'm Mexican). When it's your birthday, you're sitting in front of your birthday cake while everyone sings happy birthday, and as soon as they're done, they slam your face into the cake. Some people just do a light push on your head and you only end up with a very little frosting on your mouth, nose, chin. But some others do what the video shows. But when it's your turn for your birthday, you'll receive the same back. There's a lot of reasons why all of them agreed to go to this extreme though, and it's usually because you're annoying, or you do the same to them in their birthday, or because you're always snitching on them with their parents, etc.
Edit: LOL it's hilarious to see all the downvotes on this comment. It's fine if you disagree with the culture and/or tradition, but why you gotta hate on my comment lol I'm just explaining lol
He's a bit small to be agreeing to it, though. And this is still too extreme. I get the tradition, but this little kid is overwhelmed. I wish we could see the whole thing, and how he is at the end.
Bruh I remember last year at my cousin’s birthday someone threw a goddamn bucket of ice cream at my face, literally, I’m not even joking that shit hurts like hell, whooped his ass the next day, it was my brother btw
Bro that sucks. I've seen crazy things like that lol
I'm fucking glad I'm not living in your culture
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