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Gatherel

They probably beat him up when opening presents…


jaegermeister195

He was the pinata.


jailguard81

He coughs up candy when you hit him hard enough


XXULTRASONIC10XX

With mountain dew


regretfulposts

And Hawaiian Punch if you hit him hard enough


Sensitive-Designer-6

Code red?


Fjotla

Lucky him


WreathOfTheHeart

r/cursedcomments


NapClub

yeah i don't understand why anyone is okay with this sort of abuse. talk about a way to scar a kid.


olddawg43

Later in life when this child begins to act out in seriously antisocial ways this group of people will be wondering what could possibly make him be like that.


skinandscones

Violent video games no doubt. Couldn’t be the fact that even joyous occasions were denied him by his family’s collective inability to behave decently.


Annual_Exchange7790

It’s the school’s fault clearly. /s


catsaver662

Ya man I absolutely do not have a functioning relationship with my parents because of bullshit like this…it’s funny every once in awhile with a hug and sorry we love you but even past 18 shit gets fucking old…you realize they’re not the people you can trust, so you end up angry as fuck like me…0/10 would not do life


VulfSki

They just throw the presents in his face too "ooo look a new baseball bat!"


Wonder_Platypus

That moment after they all pummel him and he goes back to trying to cut the cake with his head down.. that she hit the feels.


personcoffee

Then they tore the cake apart and threw it in his face


EarlGreyTea-Hawt

That was what killed me, he doesn't even get to eat the damned cake. Little dude was done wrong.


YourFemboyServant

Is it wrong to have the strong urge to punch every person in that room except for the kid


SosseTurner

Nope it is not, I'm coming with you


Vio_Van_Helsing

All aboard the beating up douchebags train.


whatnameisnttaken098

What do we call ourselves? Douchebag Beaters?


Kayden_Pauser

Birthday savers. As long as you take the kid out for a proper birthday.


Not-Enough-Spoons

I’m in for the Birthday Savers. We show up with everything for a party, then when his family’s eyes light up we beat the stuffing out of them, drag them outside and throw little dude a fun, but chill, party!


Annual_Exchange7790

With a HUGE cake and little man gets to cut it on the shoulders of his favorite super heroes.


whatnameisnttaken098

Also let's use his family as piñatas


RomansInSpace

Shifts would have to be organised so that while part of the group is giving the kid a fun birthday, the other part is far enough away that the kid doesn't have to see his family being fed their own teeth.


HayBaleTheGreat

Douchedust crusaders, we will turn them to dust


ThatGumnutGuy

When do we start :D


Ok_Mathematician2087

I'll be right there with you with an asp baton.


beintimeforclass

Fuck dose guys! Hope that little boy have some better adults to take care of him


kinder_me

Nah! I’ll even bring the fucking guillotine🤯🤯🤬🤬


silverfang45

Yes it is weird don't forget about birthday punches don't want to exclude the kid


whatnameisnttaken098

Punch is the least of what I'd do.


Moti18

Especially the kid.... wait...


AnotherNicePerson

I’m coming with you too. How can a parent let their child be treated like this? This is straight up abuse.


kwhorona

I'm coming with you


CartierStreet

I donno why but this comment makes me miss good people who are gone


SlowStudy

I'll go with you.


A_Wild_Bin_Appeared

forget punching, im getting ready to break out my sword and start a fucking crusade


floss147

I’m so angry, I could punch them all twice I would hug that kid so hard, he would feel so loved


Rainbowfettuccine

Wtf!? Why?! Poor kid But can we just take a moment to think about cleaning up that mess? Fuck


mothraegg

They probably made the kids clean it.


sessimon

Well it was *his birthday!*


RetroGrade20

That's unnecessary as fuck. I hate everyone in this video


ChintanP04

The kid too?


RetroGrade20

No


Kayden_Pauser

“People are too sensitive these days!” - People that do shit like this.


Big_Gouf

"At LeAsT yOu GoT a CaKe FoR yOuR bIrThDaY"


Kayden_Pauser

“I didn’t even get to eat it!” “Kids these days are so ungrateful!”


st_rdt

"Bah, snowflakes" *Puts on two layers of warm clothes and a beanie to step outdoors in September*


regretfulposts

'What wrong with you? This shit is hilarious." *Years later* "Where is that shit? Why couldn't he visit me at the retirement home at least just once. I was a great father, giving him character."


AllSeeingRogue

Exactly 💯


Oraxy51

Not even a facepalm just a r/iamatotalpieceofshit


ThatGumnutGuy

beat me to it


Oraxy51

I’d also accept r/trashy


locotte

What a traumatic experience for that kid... Great family, or something...


Fonzee327

I know he’s really little and it looked like he was trying to get the raw egg out of his eyes and they just kept pelting him with chunks of cake. Wtf i feel so bad for him poor kid


locotte

Hurts my heart. He looked so modest and happy the first few seconds.


Fonzee327

I know he was so happy and excited to be the birthday boy and then they humiliate him while filming it. It just seems so mean spirited he’s just a little boy


ActiveAnimals

And then imagine them showing him the video and laughing at the fun they had together on his birthday for the next few weeks. Really solidifies the message of “your feelings don’t matter.”


Kayden_Pauser

The poor kid is literally shaking his head no. He’s not enjoying this.


Swiingtrad3r

Must hate his birthday.


Nipple_Dick

Saddest thing was how he kept trying to cut his cake.


ldtravs1

Shoulda turned the knife on the rest


JACK_kazensky

😞


bluepushkin

That little boy didn't look amused. I hope they had an extra cake and an apology ready for him!


TRIKKDADDY

Yea, normally after getting whipped, momma comes out with a towel, baby talk and the real cake. Happens all the time over here


RottenPotatoIceCream

I’m so shocked at how people are like “meh. It’s not that big of a deal” But imagine trying to cut your cake as a kid and then THIS happens? You were so stoked to have a cake and then it gets absolutely destroyed and you get attacked. Doesn’t matter if a new cake is brought out, the emotional and physical damage is already done. It’s such a shitty thing to do…


GrowingBuds

Well then I guess that makes child abuse ok..........


twomasc

What kind of sick place is "over here"?


RottenPotatoIceCream

I’m assuming Mexico?


KryptosFR

Apology doesn't cut it, it's child abuse. They need to be put away.


Dolorisedd

What a bunch of dicks.


Vio_Van_Helsing

I hate this. The whole time I'm expecting the kid to raise their head up and start bawling, but they never do. A five-year-old shouldn't be that stoic.


Derpy_McDerpyson

Yeahh it makes me wonder about the day to day abuse he puts up with


cb_raider

This was done to me as a child. Not to this extent but close. It's humiliating and unacceptable. I feel for the kid.


canadienhockeygirl

If I may, what sort of warped reasoning does an adult try to give for acting this way? Sorry that happened to you friend.


JrsNinja91

Probably young parents who are just using the kids birthday as another reason to have friends over and get wasted, they probably all went outside and played drunk volleyball after this, leaving the kid inside, probably didn’t even invite the kids friends over. Two “parents” killed a kid and buried him in a cornfield out here in NW Chicagoland two years ago because the kid was “inconvenient” to them. It was a rather nice neighborhood two blocks from where I lived. Evil can exist anywhere anytime and you would never know


ActiveAnimals

Lots of people view their children as a thing they get for entertainment. That’s why they complain so much when the child develops its own personality, instead of always doing what they want.


saturns82moon

When tf this became a trend? Traumatized kid. Never gonna forget his 5th bday. Poor thing gonna request no more bday parties


obiflancanoli

Nothing about this is good. Everything about this is bad.


Bitbatgaming

Why do people splat the meal in their kids face? This is so cruel and traumatic.


SuperTokyo

What the hell is this, this is f*cked up


jailguard81

That’s just straight up child abuse. What the fuck…….


clarktn

In Mexico they celebrate the mordida, a tradition when the first birthday boy or girl's face gets shoved in cake by a loving parent. But this is different, this is just pure barbaric.


ArtToTheEyesandEars

Yes, shoving someone's face in the cake is very different from pelting the birthday person with eggs then proceed to grab parts of the cake and then proceed to fucking throw it at them like a baseball player. AND DID THEY POUR SOUP ON THEM?!?!?!


daddy_dangle

Yes, it is also tradition to pour hot soup on them. The ones that survive get to turn 5


ArtToTheEyesandEars

I love the last sentence. 🤣🤣🤣


Ok_Mathematician2087

How is mordida NOT barbaric???


KharnTheBetrayer88

It isn't that bad, in my country your friends will literally line up, make a human corridor and make you run between them while they hit you with slaps. After this we usually get hugged, cheered and get some gifts


unspok3n1

usually? wow that's rough.


hellocaptin

Because not everyone is a sissy and can have fun. This is different but don’t go hating on other cultures traditions


GrowingBuds

I don't give a shit what your culture is, this is child abuse


slingshot91

What is fun about wasted cake?


RottenPotatoIceCream

Yes, let’s use culture to justify beating a kid up. Some culture marry kids off but I suppose that’s ok because of culture?


bkkwanderer

What the point of the tradition exactly? An excuse for child abuse?


jenntoops

I am so disgusted by this… where are his parents? In what circumstances is this appropriate behavior? I try to be culturally sensitive but if this is a cultural/traditional (coming of age) activity, people really need to assess the origins, meaning, and maybe come up with a less violent approach.


ChintanP04

I can assure you this isn't a cultural thing. Most traditions try to not waste food (save for religious ceremonies, probably, but that's usually donated too). It's most probably another level of the bashing face in a cake thing, which is a product of trying to follow popular fads. The family must have thought it's a funny prank and they'd all laugh about it.


silverfang45

It's a cultural thing in Mexico or at least that's what I've been told


ChintanP04

Yeah, I just learned the face-cake thing is a Mexican tradition, but it's usually reserved to first birthdays and this whole egg and other shit they're throwing at him isn't part of the tradition.


silverfang45

Oh yeah this example is over the top and really enters the gray zone between abuse and cultural expression


Samdonne

Obscene. How am I supposed to coexist with all the people in the world who behave this way?


jayeshdaya

This is difficult to watch and absolutely disgusting. Even if this a cultural thing it was obsessive, violent and traumatizing. Shit like this honestly makes me depressed. How people can behave like this is completely beyond me.


loki_odinsotherson

And the Birthday Killer was born.


bondhanu

Fuck those assholes. No kid will be happy with a birthday party like that


horoyoii

C'mon MAAAAN, that's just so bad..


[deleted]

If this was my son, I’d be fighting my entire family


bopgame

This is sad


Village-Idiot-savant

Child abuse.


Woahwoahwoahb

I don’t think wasting food is the problem here


kal_pal

This makes me sick. He’s a child and the others around him appear to be teenagers. Grow the fuck up.


sheltojb

This is not facepalm. It's barbaric. I'd really like to see it removed so it doesn't propagate.


ActiveAnimals

I’m glad the majority of these comments agree that this is abuse. I was expecting much more degeneracy in the comment section. Keeping it up with these comments, might hopefully shame some parents who would otherwise have been tempted to try something similar. (Talking about all forms of “pranking” children who are too young to “get the joke.”)


Dramatic_Product_844

Wow. Fuck these people


KryptosFR

And someone filmed that and was probably very happy with themselves. Sickening.


hayashi1975

That is child abuse!


Streetluxury_amg

Wtf


idiroon

That's just so obnoxious and sad


CyrexPH

How to basic childhood story


chat488

Where is the fun in that?


spidermanngp

What in the actual fuck?


CharlesCalvin19

This family disgusts me


Prithviraj556

5 to 6 adults bathing little kid in soft drinks and food. Awful !!!


AlrightNow20

This made me so sad


Embarrassed_Echo_375

Ahhhhhh... reminds me of a birthday tradition in my home country that I absolutely hates. On birthdays the birthday kid would be pelted with eggs and flour. For what reason? Who knows. Shits and giggles probably. Thankfully I scared my classmates enough that they never tried it with me and that 'tradition' disappeared when I got into high school and hopefully will never make a comeback.


inksolblind

Someone please drag this family through the streets to the DCF. This is excessive and cruel to a kid that young.


jenniferanne93

That’s absolutely disgusting


MutedMessage8

This is horrendous. He’s so little 😭


pttycks111

Omg.. doing this to someone older might be funny, but hes a very tiny boy, this is bordering on child abuse.


[deleted]

What the fuck.... That isn't fun, that is fucking torture....


marufmorshed567

poor kid only wanted to eat some cake....


Majo1118

Poor child. Im sure he is trumatized after it, and Im sure if the child had cried or screamed the adults would have just laugh or beat him


MustangMimi

That is awful.


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justadair

I feel sick to my stomach. Part of me wants to say that I don't know the whole story and that this is most likely a tradition that everyone in this family has gone through. The other part of me is telling that part to shut the fuck up because I would personally never do this to any kid.


Schollert

Poor kid!


suetlantham

Why???


Vahn869

Why would people do this in the first place??


DontaskemeIdontknow

What a totally disgusting act these guys really get my goat what total A holes.


Robo--FED

I wanna puke.


cole945

r/NoahGetTheBoat


makemusic25

How awful!


QX23

What the hello was that??


Diddlydom35

They're adults bullying a kid. What's the point in that? To ruin his birthday?


LordFelcher

If this is a cultural thing, can someone let me know which one so I can be sure to avoid it.


Travelrinserepeat30

Anyone else wish they could call CPS and then throw the kid a real party while the parents rot in jail?!


ParmAxolotl

I'm hearing this is a tradition in Mexico, yeah that doesn't mean it's condoneable. Every culture has some stupid traditions we should try to get rid of.


TheNorthernMunky

Oh cool, some casual child abuse. This really boiled my piss. I have a kid about this age and would batter anyone who tried this with him. Can’t get over this poor kid’s resignation. He’s been through shit like this before.


KTitan2602

The kid after 7-8 years- Imperio Crucio AVADA KEDAVRAAAAA


CodeXCursors

I know throwing eggs at someone in their birthday then using their cakes to make it fancier is a good kind of prank (only if they have permission to use the cake). However, I'm disgusted by this. Just seeing the poor kid struggling to remove the egg from his face and then having his cake thrown on him makes me feel quite bad. Although on another perspective, this might be scripted. Anyways, I really don't like the fact that they wasted a lot of eggs just for that stunt. You only need like a dozen eggs in order to do this, not an entire fucking bucket. If the people who threw eggs on him were kids, fuck them. If they were adults, grow the fuck up. CodeXCursors out.


P3tF1sh

The next part was they smashed all his gifts with baseball bats.


ChintanP04

The smashed him with bats while he tried to open gifts.


babyBear83

Is this a recent video? WTF.


snksleepy

There better be a backup cake or there will be consequences. Just sayin.


Mrshio

He is now a member of the most successful secret society in the world !! Congratulations 🥳


Fabulous-Weight-1031

Poor child


alisonk13

So awful


CultistNr3

What the fuck is this shit?


UncleTomski

He’s just a boy you fucking bastards. If I was there and wasn’t in on the ‘joke’ I’d be swinging for the fences.


hopeless-classroom80

He is just a child. Wtf


KingBillyDuckHoyle

What the fuck? Why?


cheech-wizard

What is the point of this? Great fun for the victim?


overitallofit

I would never celebrate a birthday again.


Humblebee_212

Everyone except the kid deserves a hard slap here. M


copperbeagle

What a bunch of assholes


YuBandcharlie

this infuriates me so fucking much


Sunshinenlolliepops

I just wanna give that poor kid a hug, after watching this


Minnymoon13

This shouldn’t be under facepalm, it should be under asshole parents


kevinnlinda

Nothing about this seems right (or fun)


Sunil_de

Now that is just child abuse


o0BigBossuk0o

This has put me in a bad mood.


JoeNemoDoe

A pie to the face can be done in good fun; but several eggs, a bowl of indeterminate liquid, and the cake torn apart? No. That was awful.


Independent-Ad5534

Fuck this family in particular


Mary_Jane7

This is hard to watch.


CattooButt

Poor little guy is not going to want a celebration in his honor if that’s the way family treats each other on their day.


TheGayestLucifer

This was his present , cruel and unusual punishment for being born.


HistrionicWordsmith

This really upsets me. I hate everything about it. How old is that poor kid??


WittyWitWitt

What the fuck?


Sharp-Incident-6272

Why would an adult do this to a child?


SecondHandLyons

I would never want another party ever again. Shit like this is why when my birthday comes around, I want people to back the hell away from me


notafakepatriot

A sheer waste of food, plus being rude and abusive.


H4l0rion

Ah childhood truama my dear friend


Hodgepodge08

From what I can gather, this is a birthday tradition in Indonesian culture. Close friends and family of the guest of honor will play surprise pranks, including dousing them with water and throwing food such as flour and eggs on them (most common), throwing the birthday boy/girl into a pool or river, tying them to a tree, or making them wear silly outfits and go out into the town to complete tasks. Apparently being covered in flour is a great honor and even complete strangers will applaud and wish a happy birthday to someone covered in flour.


ImNotLegitLol

But why


castfam09

If I were the kid I’d be paused off


fluffylord1

Pretty sure I've seen this posted somewhere and it was explained that this is culture for when someone reaches a certain year on their birthday. Forget which culture but that's my rough recollection of it.


fluffylord1

I'm not one to question culture but I will admit it seems pretty fucked from an outside perspective.


mechanical_madman

Happy birthday kid, we fucking hate you! If these are friends and family, I'd fuckin run away.


CAFE-IMP

HA usually I just had my face smashed in the cake, but this happended to my uncle one time LOL


ItsJustDVRJS

Better than using stones I suppose


XXULTRASONIC10XX

I couldn’t agree more with the wastage


notkunkka

Ppl are getting more stupid than before, wasting food, and the kid is not happy with what is happening.


Epicgamer_jazz

Redditor’s when a kid enjoys playing fortnite


TangerineSad744

For those of you hating on them, idk about other cultures but this is an extremely common Mexican tradition (I'm Mexican). When it's your birthday, you're sitting in front of your birthday cake while everyone sings happy birthday, and as soon as they're done, they slam your face into the cake. Some people just do a light push on your head and you only end up with a very little frosting on your mouth, nose, chin. But some others do what the video shows. But when it's your turn for your birthday, you'll receive the same back. There's a lot of reasons why all of them agreed to go to this extreme though, and it's usually because you're annoying, or you do the same to them in their birthday, or because you're always snitching on them with their parents, etc. Edit: LOL it's hilarious to see all the downvotes on this comment. It's fine if you disagree with the culture and/or tradition, but why you gotta hate on my comment lol I'm just explaining lol


Bunpoh

He's a bit small to be agreeing to it, though. And this is still too extreme. I get the tradition, but this little kid is overwhelmed. I wish we could see the whole thing, and how he is at the end.


Epicgamer_jazz

Bruh I remember last year at my cousin’s birthday someone threw a goddamn bucket of ice cream at my face, literally, I’m not even joking that shit hurts like hell, whooped his ass the next day, it was my brother btw


TangerineSad744

Bro that sucks. I've seen crazy things like that lol


sanguiniuswept

I'm fucking glad I'm not living in your culture


CR_ThisIsNotOkay

When somebody says gif instead of gif